Finn 6 months

Finn 6 months

my little strongman, of course I was monkeying with the white balance on the camera and that’s when I caught a few unrepeatable shots, blerg. Tried to clean up the yellow with the basic Photoshop Elements on Kim’s school computer, hard to believe it was way yellower, huh? Damn real Photoshop is like $600 or $700 now, no wonder everybody steals it.

Finn 6 months

Finn 6 months

dreidelman, spins constantly now, in bed, during tummy time, and on the floor for pictures

Finn 6 months

Finn 6 months

Finn 6 months

he sits fine in his high chair, car seat, and stroller but won’t stay like this for more than 10 seconds, just flops over, no matter how many times I tell him it will make floor play more fun for ALL of us

Finn 6 months

Finn 6 months

Finn 5 months

Finn 5 months

my boy is always smiling, it’s getting harder to catch some of the profile and character shots now, he sees the camera and smiles right away, not that I’m complaining about a happy baby

Finn 5 months

Finn 5 months

constant teething this month, so far he seems to prefer his fingers over all the special, much researched, bpa free teethers, but his first choice is to grab our hands and steer them into his mouth

Finn 5 months

Finn 5 months

he’s moved from the 50th to the 80th percentile for height, I’m glad made the nook for a twin xl bed

Finn 5 months

Finn 5 months

Finn 5 months

Finn 4 months

Finn 4 months

Finn 4 months

next one kills me, he looks so grown up!

Finn 4 months

Finn 4 months

and in his nook, he’s getting long

Finn 4 months

Finn 4 months

he wants you to know he found his feet, and they’re awesome

Finn 4 months

Finn 3 months

Finn 3 months

Finn 3 months

Finn 3 months

Finn 3 months

Finn 3 months

and in his nook for scale…

Finn 3 months

Finn 3 months

Finn 3 months

Lightscoop!

I learned about this awesome gadget from one of my favorite bloggers, Benita, at ChezLarsson.

Lightscoop

I think I’ll definitely order one, because I’ve been rockin this one I made from an envelope and some masking tape, and it constantly needs to be fiddled with, imagine that, but it looks so well made …

homemade flash bounce

Finn 2 months

I took these pics on the 13th, just now getting them up…

Finn 2 months

He smiles all the time now. If he keeps this up I might forgive him for what he did to my vagina.

Finn 2 months

Finn 2 months

and here are a couple in his nook,

Finn 2 months

Finn 2 months

Hands free nursing bra hack

This is the Simple Wishes hands free pumping bra. It is the bomb. Best thing out there.

Simple Wishes pump bra hack, nurse one side

At Finn’s two week checkup we found out he wasn’t regaining his birth weight. So we rented a scale and were heartbroken to find he wasn’t getting much out of me, despite marathon 1 1/2 hour nursing sessions. Our lactation consultant said the nipple shields I was wearing for my inverted nipples were interfering with delivery. So since then I’ve been pumping exclusively and then bottle feeding him breastmilk with some formula supplementation as needed. Now that my milk supply is established we haven’t used formula in a couple weeks! Awesome right? Except that it’s exhausting, and a huge time suck, like pretty much my whole day.

When he’s feeding every two hours, it goes like this. Bottle feed him about 4 ounces, burp him and keep him upright enough so he doesn’t spit up. Change the inevitable poopy diaper that he thanks me with. That’s 30 minutes. Then put him in the swing next to my pump chair, hook up, and pump. Another 30 minutes. Wash the bottle, pump parts, label and put away milk. Now we’re at about an 1:15-30 if everything went smoothly and he didn’t fuss in the swing too much. So it’s almost time to feed again! OMG

My right nipple has healed enough and he’s old enough to feed directly from the breast again (it’s touch and go but we’re working on it). So I have one more wish. I’d like to pump one side while I nurse Finn on the other, maybe take a nap between feedings. Apparently not so simple a wish. There aren’t any good bras for this. My mama ordered me this one, the best we could find after hours searching online.

La Leche pump bra

You can see the fit of the outer bra is perfect, and it’s comfortable. But it’s useless as a pump or nursing bra.

La Leche pump bra, inner pump flaps too loose and outer flaps in the way of nursing

The inner flaps are way too loose, even though you can see I hand stitched a couple darts in the near one to take up some slack. It could use two more darts. But I didn’t bother, because after a trial run I realized an even bigger flaw, the outer flaps won’t get out of the way. It’s as low as it goes, this takes any difficulty your baby has latching on and makes it worse by covering up half your boob, right up to the nipple, with two layers of thick padding. Maybe if you had nipples the size of shotgun shells this bra wouldn’t be in the way but my little .22′s are lost in here.

So I came up with this.

Simple Wishes pump bra hack, nurse one side

The bra comes in 3 pieces, that velcro and zip together, with an optional center spacing insert. Cut the spacing insert it in half, now you have a perfectly mated zipper piece, for either breast. I left it thicker where it attaches to the elastic then thinned it out, trying to expose as much of my breast as possible, but it would’ve been fine straight.

Then sew on 2 lengths of 3/4 inch non-roll elastic to the zipper side you need. I used some scrap white denim to make the other end. Then sewed on a couple strips of velcro. I made it the same length as the original, knowing there is plenty of room for adjustment.

Simple Wishes pump bra hack, nurse one side

Ignore the messy sewing, I eyeballed everything, didn’t get the iron out, and my machine’s tension is broken, ugh. But you get the gist. Here’s the velcro side.

Simple Wishes pump bra hack, nurse one side

And here it is in action.

Simple Wishes pump bra hack, nurse one side

Simple Wishes pump bra hack, nurse one side

Now if I can just get the little man to stop squirming and kicking at the pump side we’ll be in business.

Placenta tree

12-30-2011 Planting the placenta tree

I think the title says it all.

12-30-2011 Planting the placenta tree

Frozen placenta puck.

12-30-2011 Planting the placenta tree

We each shoveled in some dirt.

12-30-2011 Planting the placenta tree

12-30-2011 Planting the placenta tree

12-30-2011 Planting the placenta tree

Then gazed at the perfect boy that came out of that bloody mess.

12-30-2011 Planting the placenta tree

12-30-2011 Planting the placenta tree

Finn 1 month

Finn 1 month

I plan to do a monthly photo series of Finn in his nook. Here’s hoping I can stick with it.

Finn 1 month

Finn 1 month

Make room for Finn! 1 month

Make room for Finn! 1 month

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

This is the final photo for my pregnancy series. I started it here, 28 weeks pregnant. Now we’re done. I considered Finn my silent partner, spurring me on with his tiny heels, because nothing has motivated me more than impending birth.

Keeping so busy was the perfect distraction from my looming due date. I put a couple hours of work into his room each day, terrified that my water would break, or I’d get put on bed rest and never finish it. Telling myself that as soon as he was born I could relax (this is where all parents laugh).

Now the only one relaxing is Finn, everything is harder than I thought, even this little photo shoot in his nook was exhausting, and my mama was here to help. But as my body heals, and I get further away from the trauma of childbirth, I can start to imagine starting new projects with my no longer silent partner.

Now my boy is one month old, and we’re back where we started, in Finn’s nook.

Make room for Finn! 1 month

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